Rethinking the Wedding Weekend
How Fridays and Sundays are quietly reshaping modern weddings
For decades, Saturday has been crowned the default wedding day. It’s familiar. It’s expected. It’s what everyone does.
But as weddings have evolved—becoming more personal, more intentional, and more experience-driven—the day of the week matters more than ever. And increasingly, couples are discovering that Friday and Sunday weddings offer advantages that Saturdays simply can’t.
If you’re weighing your options, here’s a breakdown of what each day really offers—and why choosing not Saturday might be the smartest decision you make.
Friday Weddings: The New Favorite
Friday weddings have quietly become one of the most loved options among modern couples—and for good reason.
Why couples love Fridays:
More availability with your dream vendors
Less competition for florists, photographers, rentals, and lodging
A celebratory, kick-off-the-weekend energy that feels exciting and intentional
Guests arrive knowing the weekend is just beginning. The night feels special, unrushed, and full of momentum. And for couples, Fridays often mean more flexibility, fewer logistical bottlenecks, and a smoother planning experience overall.
Friday weddings also tend to feel more curated and less chaotic—because you’re not competing with dozens of other events happening simultaneously.
Saturday Weddings: Popular for a Reason—but Not Without Tradeoffs
There’s no denying Saturday’s popularity. Guests don’t have to take time off work, and the day fits neatly into tradition.
But that popularity comes at a cost.
What couples often don’t realize about Saturdays:
Vendors book out earlier and fill up faster
Pricing is typically highest across venues and services
Setup and timelines can feel tighter due to back-to-back events
Travel, lodging, and traffic are at peak demand
Saturday weddings can feel incredible—but they can also feel crowded, rushed, and less flexible. You’re sharing the day with nearly everyone else getting married in your region, which can quietly limit personalization and ease.
Sunday Weddings: Slow, Romantic, and Underrated
Sunday weddings are often overlooked—but they’re deeply romantic and surprisingly practical.
Why Sundays shine:
A relaxed, intentional pace
Beautiful daytime ceremonies and golden-hour receptions
Easier vendor availability and coordination
Guests tend to linger, connect, and truly be present
Sunday celebrations often lean into brunch receptions, afternoon ceremonies, or sunset dinners—creating an atmosphere that feels warm, intimate, and unhurried. They’re especially perfect for couples who value experience over tradition.
When Letting Go of Saturday Makes Sense
hoosing a Friday or Sunday wedding isn’t about settling—it’s about strategic freedom.
By stepping away from Saturday, couples often gain:
More flexibility in planning
Stronger vendor relationships and availability
A calmer, more intentional wedding day
Better flow for setup, décor, and guest experience
And perhaps most importantly: your wedding feels like your own, not one of many happening that same day.
The Bottom Line
There’s no wrong day to get married—but there is a day that aligns best with your priorities.
If you want:
More breathing room
A smoother planning process
A day that feels intentional, romantic, and unhurried
Then Friday or Sunday might just be the perfect choice.
Sometimes, the best weddings happen when you let go of what’s expected—and choose what truly fits.
We believe the best weddings are shaped by how the day feels, not what the calendar says. At Terra Valley Farms, our venue, decor, and approach are built to support celebrations that unfold naturally. Whether that’s a Friday gathering that kicks off the weekend or a Sunday that lingers a little longer.
